Crossing Cultures 

As half term draws to a close and we start to think about the upcoming break, it is a good opportunity to think about the benefits of going on school trips. For me this next week will be spent resting at home, but during my time working in Asia, we were fortunate to travel extensively and I know the impact that had on my family was significant, creating a better understanding of different cultures and providing opportunities to wonder at the exquisite examples of the natural world. 

At BGS, we firmly believe that education extends far beyond the confines of the classroom. It’s about broadening perspectives, fostering curiosity, and nurturing a deeper understanding of the world around us. That’s why we’re incredibly excited about the upcoming school trips that will take our students on journeys of exploration and discovery.

Over the next weeks, our students will embark on a variety of enriching experiences that will leave a lasting impact on their lives. From the slopes of Austria to the streets of Nice, France, and the vibrant culture of London’s West End, each trip offers unique opportunities for growth and learning.

Our ski trip to Austria will see over 100 students from Years 8 to Upper Sixth hitting the slopes, supported by many members of staff who will ensure our students have the best opportunities. Beyond mastering their skiing skills, students will learn valuable lessons in teamwork, resilience, and cultural immersion. For many they will be stepping outside of their comfort zones and the senses of fulfilment in achieving something new will be life shaping.

Meanwhile, in Nice, France, a group of 30 students will embark on a homestay experience, staying with French families and attending language school during the day. This trip promises to deepen our students’ appreciation for language and culture while fostering lifelong connections.

Back on home soil, our students will also have the chance to experience the magic of the theatre with a matinee performance of A Mirror: West End at the Almeida Theatre in London. This cultural outing will inspire creativity and spark meaningful discussions about storytelling and performance.

For those with a passion for science, our Physics Trip to CERN, Switzerland, offers a rare glimpse into the world of cutting-edge research. With a focus on real-world applications of physics, this trip will ignite curiosity and inspire future scientists.

Reflecting on the past few months, our students have already embarked on incredible adventures, from exploring design technology at Disneyland Paris to participating in the Cambridge Model United Nations, swim training in Lanzarote, to exploring Berlin and Valencia. Led by dedicated staff members these experiences have empowered our students to think critically, collaborate effectively, and engage with global issues in meaningful ways. As we look forward to the second half of the Spring Term excitement is growing in the Junior School as our younger students prepare for the annual resident trips.

As educators, we recognise the immense value of school trips in shaping well-rounded individuals who are equipped to navigate an increasingly interconnected world. Through embracing new experiences, our students are not only expanding their horizons but also laying the foundation for a lifetime of curiosity, empathy, and lifelong learning. We can’t wait to see the incredible growth and transformation that awaits them on their upcoming adventures. They also form new friendships, often across year groups as the power of the shared experience brings them together.  

Maya Angelou’s following quote: “Perhaps travel cannot prevent bigotry, but by demonstrating that all peoples cry, laugh, eat, worry, and die, it can introduce the idea that if we try and understand each other, we may even become friends.” perfectly encapsulates why it is so important that our young people grasp opportunities to see as much of the world as they can. We want them to begin to foster empathy, challenge stereotypes, and cultivate cross-cultural friendships. I hope travel, both near and far, encourages our students to open their hearts and minds, recognising the shared humanity that binds people together regardless of cultural differences.

Understanding the importance of empathy

This week, Deputy Head – Student Engagement and Welfare, Mr Gracie, guest writes his inaugural BGS blog about the importance of well-being and how empathy plays a crucial role in achieving it.

I think that the most frequent question I have been asked since starting to work at BGS has been “How are you settling in?”. It’s hard to answer because I really like it but I wouldn’t say I yet feel comfortable. My observations about our students as talented, ambitious and principled young people from before I started has been proved correct in many ways and it is a kind and inclusive school. However, in a new environment there can be things which throw us, often unexpectedly, and this part of settling can also be tricky to navigate. One of these moments came in my third week when giving a whole school assembly. I have delivered many school assemblies and, it has to be said, am generally quite fond of the sound of my own voice. I was taken by surprise, therefore, to find myself having the chance to express what is important to me to a brand new group of students, feeling quite daunting and very nervous. 

I began the planning for the assembly wanting to address how we attain well-being. In a school like BGS this is potentially so easy. I told the students about the children’s act of 2004 which outlines a broad definition that includes our social, economic and educational context, not just our physical and mental health. Students at BGS have the chance to involve themselves in a plethora of activities and can aim for excellent outcomes through the education they experience. They can learn how to be physically and mentally healthy and have a programme of education supporting thinking about their futures and career development from Year 3 onwards. Opportunity might not always mean outcome however, and I think an important factor in our achieving well-being is the culture we get to explore opportunities within.

At BGS we outline our culture explicitly in our ethos and our Positive Behaviour Policy which tells us that respect underpins all of our interactions. Respect considers the way we treat others and ourselves and it is a way of showing that people are valuable. It is a set of choices about our interactions but it could risk being reduced to a set of rules for interactions and miss some of the best things about positive interactions. Thinking back to preparing for my assembly, I shared with a few colleagues how I was feeling and they encouraged me by sensitively considering my situation and reminding me it is normal and that we all feel nervous at some points but we know we can do hard things by doing our best. They showed me really powerful empathy, it made me feel safe and willing to try. If our students took one thing from the assembly, I wanted it to be that we can all pause and consider the potential thoughts, feelings and experiences of the people around us before interacting with them; to aim to practise empathy as a particularly good way of expressing respect.

Without empathy, the world is a colder and possibly more harmful place. I have been reminded about the very worst expressions of this recently as we have observed Holocaust Memorial Day. We must remind ourselves as we consider these horrendous events that research suggests the early roots of genocide and the worst atrocities are based on ‘othering’ people – making them different to us in our language or treatment of them. This can be the small tumble of pebbles, at a societal level, that cascades to become a terrible rockfall. Othering separates people and underpins the worst in human behaviour. 

In contrast, empathy connects people and brings us closer together. I really believe that the choices we make and behaviours we select each day become habit and impact the world around us accordingly. If we choose not to empathise, we miss out on connections; making them separate from us. We end up not only treating others poorly but also we miss out on potential kindness, warmth and support. I would rather choose empathy. Someone I find  inspirational in enlightening our emotions and how we connect with others is the American author and researcher Brene Brown. She gives a really helpful description of empathy in this short video. As a quick plug, she has a number of super books, podcasts and highly viewed TED talks but a particularly helpful resource is Atlas of the Heart, a kind of dictionary about our emotions.

There is so much kindness and empathy at BGS and I am excited about having the chance to further embed this. We know, for example, that focusing on empathy gives the most powerful ways to move people forward and learn when there are instances of relationship breakdown and friction between students. We will be training some students this term to be anti-bullying ambassadors through the Diana awards. We also intend to learn from the practices of the organisation Girls on Board over the coming months. 

The former headteacher, Andrew Hampton, writes that: “When you evoke empathy in girls (of course this will apply for all young people) you prompt them to feel what others are feeling and experiencing. This has the power to change their thinking and behaviour profoundly…. They ask themselves if I was feeling like that, what would I want to happen?” When Girls Fall Out, Andrew Hampton.

This idea is not dissimilar to the age-old tradition of ‘do unto others as you would have them do to you’ but I think the connecting with how others might feel helps us take that further step of understanding perspectives and reflecting on our choices. At the minimum we must choose the right thing to do, actions of respect, but I love the idea that we can extend ourselves to embrace others’ thoughts and feelings and really connect with those around us in our communities.

So how am I settling in? Well, new scenarios are hard but I am grateful that so many people have paused and asked “If I was feeling like that what would I want to happen” and chosen to empathise and support someone new.

Setting Sail to Success

Mock Exams and Future Aspirations

I was privileged to visit the UCAS headquarters this week in my role as Vice Chair of the GSA Universities Committee. It was fascinating to hear from Dr Jo Saxton of her vision for UCAS, having only been in post as Chief Executive Officer for 2.5 days after her sterling work with Ofqual as Chief Regulator overseeing the return of exams for GCSE and A Levels after the pandemic. She talked a lot of sense and was clearly passionate about opportunities for young people. During their presentation, UCAS highlighted that there have been fluctuations in application trends in the past few years, with large numbers applying during the pandemic, but also including a surprising 1.3% dip in 18-year-olds applying to university last year despite the larger demographic in this age group; it is possible that this is a response to factors such as the cost of living, but also that other opportunities, such as gap years have opened up once more after the pandemic. 

We also noted that selective universities are witnessing shifts in subject choices, emphasising the evolving landscape of student interests, with languages sadly becoming less popular and courses such as computer science at top universities being extremely competitive. UCAS is committed to positive changes, with plans for an improved personal statement process by 2026 following on from the revision of the references this year, which has been very helpful. Apprenticeships are emerging as vibrant opportunities, and though challenges exist, there’s a collective effort to enhance funding and increase options. UCAS’s ambitious road to a million applicants for higher education by 2030 showcases the resilience of the education sector in adapting to demographic shifts. Bedford Girls’ School follows these trends extremely carefully so we can give our students thorough and bespoke universities and careers guidance at The Bridge, so that each and every student can achieve their aspirations. 

So it seems rather apt that I take this opportunity to share my pride in the students of Year 11 and the Upper Sixth for their unwavering commitment and hard work during the recent mock exams. These assessments are not just a test of academic knowledge but also a stepping stone towards the future, whether it be in universities, apprenticeships, gap years, or careers.The dedication exhibited by our students during the mock exams has been truly commendable. I know that for some they have had to grapple with nerves, but I am pleased with the resilience they have demonstrated in  navigating the challenging path towards their aspirations, with the support of their teachers and pastoral staff where needed.

For the Sixth Formers who are aspiring to pursue higher education, whether at renowned universities or through apprenticeships, the mock exams offer a crucial opportunity to gauge their strengths and identify areas for improvement. Success in these assessments not only opens doors to prestigious institutions or apprenticeships, but also lays the foundation for a successful academic journey. Some of our students may be considering gap years as they explore the world and gain valuable life experiences. The skills they have developed preparing for these exams are indicative of their commitment to personal growth and development, traits that will undoubtedly serve them well during their gap year adventures. For those eager to enter the workforce directly, the mock exams have provided a valuable opportunity to hone their skills and demonstrate their readiness for the professional world. Employers increasingly value not only academic achievements but also qualities such as problem-solving, adaptability, and resilience – qualities that our students have displayed in abundance.

In summary, I am immensely proud of the hard work and determination exhibited by our Year 11 and Upper Sixth students during the mock exams. As the creative thinkers, the change-makers and problem solvers of tomorrow, they have embraced the challenges with composure and tenacity. 

To our students, as you come to the end of your mocks, I hope you will be inspired by this quote from Eleanor Roosevelt: “The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams”. But if you didn’t find these exams easy or things didn’t quite go to plan, perhaps take comfort from the words of the author of Little Women, Louise May Alcott: “I am not afraid of storms, for I am learning to sail my ship.” 

I am sure you will all have learned how to sail your ship that little bit straighter these past few weeks. 

Dr Who’s Timeless Wisdom

In the Gibson household, we have been eagerly awaiting an event that always brings us together as a family. Now it might not be what you think, because although we love Christmas in our family, there is something that happened a few weeks ago that I wanted to focus the start of my blog on instead…and that is the 60 year anniversary of Dr Who

This is a show that I loved as a child and that we watched as a family during the pandemic from the first revamped episode with Christopher Eccleston right up until Jodie Whittaker. Though we have always loved David Tennant and we were delighted to see him back. I have always loved Dr Who’s messages and the most recent episode, The Giggle, really inspired me with its commentary on our modern society and what it would be like if everyone in the world always thought they were right. It was a world on the brink of disaster with angry exchanges wherever you turned. And sadly sometimes the world does feel like that, with so much uncertainty and fear after the pandemic with wars, environmental disasters and financial insecurity, we as a society have seen people being quicker to anger and slower to care about others. Sadly, this is having an impact on our children who are being influenced by the anger they see around them and can be left feeling anxious or being uncertain how to react themselves in difficult situations, sometimes causing more upset and pain. 

So as we approach the festive season in the wake of all these unprecedented challenges, the importance of the timeless message of peace resonates more profoundly than ever. In a world grappling with uncertainty, facing the aftermath of a global pandemic, and witnessing unsettling conflicts, it becomes imperative for us, as a diverse and united community, to reflect on the universal significance of peace.

Christmas, irrespective of one’s faith, holds a unique power to unite us in the spirit of hope and goodwill. It transcends religious boundaries, reminding us of the shared values that connect us as human beings. This year, as we navigate a post-pandemic world and witness turmoil around the globe, the message of peace becomes a guiding light in our collective journey.

In a time where anger seems to linger in the air, let us actively embrace the principles of peace. The foundation of peace lies not only in the absence of conflict but in the presence of understanding, empathy, and compassion. It is a force that unites rather than divides, fostering an environment where every individual, regardless of background, feels valued and respected.

At Bedford Girls’ School, we take pride in our diverse community, representing a tapestry of cultures and beliefs. It is in this diversity that the true strength of our unity is revealed. Our school is a microcosm of the world we wish to see – a world where differences are celebrated, and unity is found in shared values.

As parents, you play a pivotal role in instilling the values of peace in the hearts of your children. Use this festive season as an opportunity to engage in conversations about empathy, tolerance and understanding. Encourage your daughters to be beacons of peace and kindness in their interactions, fostering a sense of harmony within the school and extending it to the broader world.

Let us collectively create a ripple effect of peace that transcends our school gates and touches the lives of those around us. In doing so, we contribute to building a world that emerges stronger from adversity, anchored in the enduring message of peace.

So if I may, I will leave you with a quote from the Twelfth Doctor Who, which I think is rather apt: “Never be cruel. Never be cowardly. Hate is always foolish. Love is always wise. Always try to be nice, but never fail to be kind.” Wise words indeed!

The Brilliance of our Young Women

Closing the Authority Gap: Empowering Girls for a Fair Future

One of the privileges of my role is my annual attendance at the Girls’ School Association Heads’ Conference, which is specifically tailored to those of us lucky enough to be running a girls’ school. We are in a unique position and take the crucial responsibility of preparing the next generation of young women to take their place in the world extremely seriously. Although some of the talk by Mary Ann Sieghart on the pervasive issue of the authority gap for women can seem disheartening, I felt energised by what we in girls’ schools can do to ameliorate this situation for the future. The research she presented shed light on the challenges women face in being taken seriously, but also offered valuable insights for educators and parents to support our young women in overcoming these barriers. 

Sieghart highlighted that society, knowingly or unknowingly, still tends to take men more seriously than women. The assumption that men are competent until proven otherwise, while women are often viewed as incompetent until they prove otherwise, creates an authority gap that extends across various aspects of life.

In professional settings, men have six times more influence in meetings than women, contributing to the underestimation and patronisation of women’s expertise. One critical aspect Sieghart emphasised is the prevalence of interruptions in meetings, which disproportionately target women, actively silencing and humiliating them. Even in the US Supreme Court, female justices are interrupted three times more frequently than their male counterparts, highlighting the need to address this issue in all public settings.

Confidence plays a significant role in perpetuating the authority gap, with boys and men generally being more confident due to upbringing and socialisation, from the playground to the board room. Furthermore, girls in coed schools may receive less attention than boys, who may be rewarded for being confident and self-promoting. Girls, on the other hand, may face social consequences for such behaviour.

Encouraging girls to speak up is crucial in narrowing the authority gap. Educators and parents can instil confidence in girls by fostering an environment where they feel comfortable expressing their opinions. This is something that the students at Bedford Girls’ School experience everyday. However, we also need to encourage them, through the confidence they have developed with us, that if they find themselves being interrupted in their lives beyond school,  that they request to finish their thoughts or indeed demand the acknowledgement they deserve for their ideas.

Role models also play a pivotal role in shaping girls’ aspirations. The importance of showcasing relatable role models cannot be overstated. One example is the character of Dana Scully in The X-Files who had a demonstrable impact on young women of that age group believing they could be a scientist – it is even known as the Scully Effect! We do this on a regular basis at BGS by inviting our alumnae into the school to give talks and act as mentors. 

However, the one area I would really like to focus on is the idea of “brilliance”. From the age of six, girls start to believe that boys are more brilliant than they are. It is often thought that boys do well due to talent and girls due to their hard work. So as teachers and as parents I strongly urge all of us to tell our daughters and students: how talented and brilliant they are; that they don’t always have to get everything right and be perfectly prepared; to be confident in their abilities knowing sometimes they can just “wing it” (boys often do); and to build that inner core of confidence whilst they are with us here at BGS, so they are ready to take on the sometimes less than fair world and demand that their fantastic ideas are listened to. 

This is how we will build a more equitable society and a more positive world. It is well documented that businesses with more gender balanced boards are more successful and research has shown that countries with greater gender equality are more likely to resolve conflicts without violence and are less likely to use military force to resolve international disputes. And what can be more brilliant than that? As the author of one of my all time favourite books said: “The question isn’t who’s going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me.” (Ayn Rand, The Fountainhead).I hope this is the case for all the students at BGS, bolstered up by the inner confidence we collectively develop within them as they grow up.

Belonging Beyond Boundaries

This week, Assistant Head – Data and Operational Management, Mrs Hooley, guest writes on the Headmistress’s blog about her recent assembly, which explored themes of belonging, othering and embracing diversity.

This past week has been Anti-Bullying Week and students had an assembly which delved into the crucial themes of belonging, the repercussions of othering, and the profound impact of embracing diversity within our school community.

As we celebrate Anti-Bullying Week, the odd socks which were worn by many students on Monday, serve as a poignant symbol of our commitment to recognising and appreciating individuality.

Belonging is at the core of our existence, encompassing feelings of acceptance, respect, inclusion, connection, and personal recognition. Within our school, a sense of belonging translates into acceptance for individual choices, inclusion in all activities, and a deep connection to both peers and the environment. Reflecting on our evolutionary history, the need for belonging is deeply rooted. Our hunter-gatherer ancestors thrived on collaboration for survival. Recent business research underscores the positive impact of a strong sense of belonging, correlating with increased job performance, decreased turnover, and fewer sick days. In addition, it has been found that a sense of belonging also contributes to a person’s sense of identity, value and is fundamental to them pursuing a positive role in society.

Othering, a concept we must confront, arises when individuals or groups are labelled as not conforming to social norms. It influences how we perceive and treat those within our perceived ‘in group’ versus the ‘out group,’ potentially leading to dehumanisation. This subtle yet pervasive phenomenon can manifest in various ways, from attributing positive qualities to those similar to us and negative qualities to those different, to avoiding interactions with individuals outside our social group. Out-grouping based on protected characteristics, such as age, ability, neurodiversity, race, religion, gender, or sexual orientation, poses a significant threat to a feeling of belonging. Our goal as a school community is to ensure everyone feels accepted, connected, and included.

To foster belonging, we must focus on individuals, challenge hidden biases, recognise multi-dimensional identities, broaden our social circles, and speak up against biased behaviour within our groups. Diversity, beyond its intrinsic value, holds numerous benefits. It sparks creativity, enhances decision-making, encourages learning, and improves overall performance. Our society, community, and school thrive when enriched by a diverse tapestry of experiences and perspectives. Diversity extends beyond academics, influencing our food, arts, fashion, and sports. Imagine a world with only one type of food, one style of music, and dress – a monotonous existence indeed!

Wearing odd socks, or embracing whatever makes one unique, becomes a powerful statement against bullying and out-grouping. It is vital that continually encourage our students to collectively strive to build belonging, ensuring everyone is a valued member of our school community.

Digital Horizons: AI-Enhanced Learning Experiences

This week, Director of Digital Learning, Enterprise and Sustainability, Mrs Hudson-Findley, guest writes on the Headmistress’s blog about the next phase in our Artificial Intelligence (AI) strategic plan.

The Tech giant Gartner released their predictions for the top trends in technology this month, proving that the need for a forward thinking mindset should be the primary instrument in any organisation’s tool kit. In the fast-paced landscape of educational technology we continue to renew our focus on the use of Artificial Intelligence (AI), which will, according to Gartner, be an overriding influence within most future industries.

The next phase in our AI strategic plan, builds on our robust foundation of fundamental skills and understanding of AI, digital literacy and safe internet practices. We are moving from “what is AI?” to “how can we leverage AI pedagogically?” We have seen AI begin to transform learning experiences, with our tutors using AI tools to offer personalised learning paths and bolstering our students’ analytical and creative skills. Now, we are poised to take this to the next level.

A cornerstone of our wider strategy is the continuous professional development of our teaching staff’s digital skills. The next phase of our continuous digital teacher training programme will enable our educators to continue enhancing our curriculum delivery and assessment methods. This term, new training sessions will be available, ranging from utilising AI for differentiated instruction, supporting students with additional learning needs and employing adaptive learning technologies that can further cater to the unique learning needs of each student.

These hands-on workshops will empower teachers to integrate advanced AI practices seamlessly into their teaching, ensuring that they can foster an environment where technology is a bridge rather than a barrier to learning. Our teaching staff will be able to guide our students through the use of AI creatively and ethically, encouraging them to think critically and ask the right questions from the pre-approved tools that are available to them.

Our commitment to digital safety remains paramount. As we integrate AI more deeply into our educational fabric, we understand the necessity of facilitating our student’s understanding and application of digital safety protocols. To this end, student digital safety workshops will be a fixture in the upcoming term, specifically designed to address the nuances of AI interaction, data privacy, and the importance of maintaining a healthy digital footprint with social media platforms in particular.

CV enhancing optional short courses will delve into topics such as AI in everyday life, the impact of machine learning, in addition to learning how AI models are trained, which are now fundamental skills. Assemblies commencing after the Christmas break will celebrate the achievements of our students in the digital realm, featuring demonstrations of AI projects that have been completed and will also provide key learning opportunities for encouraging social responsibility when engaging with technology. Our student-centric approach ensures that these initiatives are not just educational but also inspirational.

As we move forward, we are mindful of the horizon – the rapidly evolving digital landscape that our students will navigate as they forge their paths in the world. BGS is committed to preparing them not just to face this future but to shape it.

Our ambition is clear: to mould a generation of digitally literate, ethically aware, and confident young women who are not just ready for the future but are also poised to lead it. With AI as our tool and education as our craft, we look forward to a world where our students will not just thrive but also drive the technological advancements that can lead to a brighter, more inclusive future.

Coping with Challenging News

There has been lots of distressing news recently and it can be hard to know how to support our young people. In our ever-connected world, guiding our children through the intricate web of the world’s events, such as the Israel-Palestine conflict, which is rightly dominating the news at the moment, while safeguarding their digital and emotional well-being has become a crucial responsibility. Today, the internet serves as a vast reservoir of information, fostering education, connecting people across continents, and enabling us to work and learn remotely.

However, this digital landscape also poses significant challenges, especially for our young learners. Social media, with its algorithms and infinite scrolling, can expose them to distressing and harmful content. While these platforms aim to keep users engaged, the unintended consequence is the proliferation of content that may not be suitable for young eyes. As Hiram Johnson said during World War I “The first casualty, when war comes, is truth”.  So how do we support our young people with the ability to question the veracity of what they are reading amidst a sea of information and, sadly, misinformation, particularly at a time like this. 

Ensuring online safety starts with empowering our students with knowledge. Encouraging them to set reasonable time limits and teaching them to use tools like browser extensions can help them control their online experiences. It’s essential to have conversations about responsible internet use, emphasising the importance of being intentional about what they access and share online. 

In the face of distressing content, our children need to know how to protect their emotional well-being. Platforms such as ReportHarmfulContent.com and CEOP provide vital resources for reporting inappropriate content. However, beyond reporting, it’s equally important for them to express their feelings. Encouraging open dialogue and creating a safe space where they can share their concerns is essential. As trusted adults, we must be receptive listeners, understanding their worries and anxieties, and providing reassurance.

When discussing complex global issues, like the Israel-Palestine conflict, age-appropriate conversations are key. Children need to understand the context without being overwhelmed by the intricacies of the situation. Open, honest, and empathetic conversations help them process their feelings and shape their perspectives. 

Our older students may well be more politically active and it is our role to help show them how to do this responsibly and open mindedly. Sadly, many universities across the world are struggling with how to ensure freedom of speech nowadays. Dr Michael Spence, UCL Provost and President, advocates that students should be taught how to “agree well”, whilst Professor Arif  Ahmed, Free Speech Tsar, in a speech at King’s College London said that freedom of speech allows people to consider different points of view, making it “fundamental” to a high-quality higher education.  We need to begin this journey here in school, showing that empathy and compassion must be at the core of these discussions, emphasising the shared humanity that unites us all.

Amidst the turmoil, highlighting stories of kindness and bravery becomes paramount. Children need to see the positive impact individuals and communities can make, even in the face of adversity. Encourage them to engage in activities that promote peace, whether it’s creating artwork, writing poetry, or participating in fundraisers. These actions empower them, giving them a sense of agency and demonstrating the power of collective compassion.

Additionally, it’s vital to manage their exposure to the news cycle. While staying informed is important, a constant barrage of distressing headlines and images can lead to heightened anxiety. Limiting their exposure, especially for younger children, and encouraging positive distractions, such as family activities or hobbies, can provide a welcome respite. Engaging in discussions about the credibility of news sources fosters critical thinking and equips them to navigate the information landscape responsibly.

Lastly, as parents and caregivers, it’s imperative to care for our own well-being. Children absorb not only what we say but also how we react. Demonstrating calmness and composure in the face of challenging news sets a powerful example. By taking care of ourselves, we can better support our children, offering them stability and reassurance in uncertain times.

In conclusion, fostering a safe online environment and navigating complex global issues necessitate open communication, digital literacy, empathy, and self-care. By embracing these principles, we empower our children to navigate the digital world responsibly and approach challenging topics with understanding and compassion. As JFK said “Children are the world’s most valuable resource and its best hope for the future”.

Sources

What to do if you come across distressing content online

How to talk to your children about conflict and war

A Year of Remarkable Opportunities

BGS Sixth Form in 2023

This week, BGS Director of Sixth Form, Mrs Woolley, guest writes on the Headmistress’s blog about the many fantastic Sixth Form events planned for this academic year.

As we dive headfirst into the academic year 2023, it is with enthusiasm and a sense of accomplishment that we mark the start of the year of remarkable opportunities and achievements for our Sixth Form students. BGS has always been a hub of excellence and this year promises to be no exception, with a host of exciting events and programmes that will enrich their educational journey.

One of the highlights of the start of this academic year is Ready to Lead? conference. Where 12 of our students will be working alongside other young people attending schools in Bedford to explore self leadership. We have every confidence that they will make the most of this incredible opportunity to hear some inspiring speakers, network, learn and develop their leadership skills.

We are also thrilled that six of our Upper Sixth students had the opportunity to attend the Global Leaders Conference at Benenden School last week. This international gathering of young leaders provided them with a unique platform to engage with global issues, foster international friendships and broaden their horizons. They heard thought-provoking and entertaining speeches from Princess Anne and Baroness Manningham Buller (past Director general of MI5 2002-2007). 

Back in school and our students’ journey of personal growth was further developed through interactive Communications Workshop led by international speaking coach, Kate Munday. Who ventured out of the corporate world for the day where her usual audience would be CEO’s and into school. The invaluable skills they acquired and the corporate perspective they were able to gain will undoubtedly benefit them in their academic pursuits, interviews and presentations as they embark on their future careers. Effective communication is a cornerstone of success and we are proud to provide our students with this opportunity and reward to witness many of them putting their learning into action when delivering their EPQ presentations.

Many students will also benefit from our Alumnae Mentorship Programme where they have the opportunity to be part of a nine month programme with a personal professional mentor. They gain invaluable insights into managing next steps, transition and decision making as well as learning how to nurture a professional relationship. 

But that’s not all; our Lower Sixth students are also embarking on a journey of giving back to the community. They will be taking on duties within the school, many volunteering in the Junior School and mentoring younger students, participating in outreach reading sessions at local primary schools. The advantages of this involvement cannot be overstated. By actively engaging with younger students and the wider community, our students not only make a positive impact but also enhance their own interpersonal, leadership skills and personal wellbeing. It’s a win-win.

This academic year also sees our first Lower Sixth Wellbeing Festival which follows their Summer exams. An opportunity for some well earned respite from their academic endeavours and a chance for festival style  in  a country house setting. A great way to celebrate their hard work and ongoing commitment. 

Of course, all of these incredible opportunities are in addition to the rigorous academic curriculum and homework; preparing UCAS statements and making decisions about next steps; House dramas and the many co-curricular clubs that enrich the lives of our students. It is this holistic approach to education that truly sets BGS apart, providing our students with a well-rounded education that prepares them not only for academic success but for a fulfilling and successful life beyond the classroom. 

Welcoming Autumn with Enthusiasm

It’s the time of year that we should be starting to think about Autumn once more and preparing for the cold months ahead, but we seem to be still benefiting from a bit of the warmth of late summer. This was never more evident than in the wonderful photos from the Year 9 and 10 residential trips to stunning Castleton and Edale. But weather aside, in so many ways it has been a truly sunny start to the Autumn Term. It has been a heartwarming experience to see our students return to BGS and settle back into routines, ready to embark on a year filled with growth, learning, and memorable moments.

The enthusiasm and energy radiating from our students has been truly infectious. They have wasted no time in rekindling old friendships, making new ones, and embracing the opportunities that await them. Our school community is stronger than ever, and it’s thanks to our hardworking staff and the unwavering support of our students and their families.

Speaking of families, we are eagerly looking forward to welcoming many current parents and grandparents to our upcoming Open House event. It’s a fantastic opportunity to showcase the exceptional work our students are doing and to create memories together. We believe that education is a collaborative effort between home and school, and we cherish this partnership.

In addition to Open House, we are equally excited about our Open Morning event, where we’ll be opening our doors to prospective families. It’s a chance for them to experience first-hand the unique atmosphere and educational excellence that define our school, and it is our students who do this so well as they tour families or demonstrate their love of learning with departments.  We hope to welcome many new faces into our BGS family and share with them the values and ethos that make our school so special.

As we look ahead to the rest of the academic year, we are filled with optimism and a sense of purpose. Our commitment to nurturing well-rounded, forward-looking, confident, and compassionate young women remains steadfast. With continued support from our parent community and that of our dedicated staff, we are confident that our students will achieve remarkable success. They really do soar through a BGS education.

The beauty of this time of year cannot be better encapsulated than from this quote by Emily Bronte: “Every leaf speaks bliss to me, fluttering from the autumn tree”. I hope our students take inspiration from this and that they find joy in every leaf that flutters their way, embracing the wisdom of new experiences and celebrating their individuality. So just as autumn paints the world with its rich and vibrant colours at this time of year, I hope each student paints their academic year with their unique talents, passions and aspirations. What a wonderful year it is going to be!