In this blog post, Head of Philosophy and Religion, Mrs Greenwood, provides useful practical strategies for parents to support their children during exam season.  

As a Head of Department and a form tutor, one of the most common questions I receive from parents is, ‘How can I best support my child during exam season? It’s a question that resonates deeply with many parents, as they strive to empower their children to reach their full potential. While exams can be a source of stress for both students and parents alike, with the right approach, they can also become an opportunity for growth, resilience and success. 

Understanding Motivation 

Motivation is the fuel that drives academic success. However, it’s essential to recognise that motivation is not a one-size-fits-all concept. What inspires one student may not necessarily resonate with another. Therefore, as parents, it’s crucial to understand our children’s unique motivators.

Encouraging a growth mindset is fundamental. Emphasise the value of effort and persistence over innate abilities. Help your child understand that intelligence is not fixed but can be developed through dedication and hard work.

Establishing a Supportive Environment 

Creating a conducive learning environment at home is essential for nurturing motivation. Ensure your child has a designated study space that is quiet, well-lit, and free from all distractions. Encourage them to keep their study area organised and clutter-free to promote focus and productivity.

Additionally, establish a routine that incorporates regular study sessions but also allows for breaks and relaxation. It is really important during times of increased pressure that students maintain a healthy balance of work and downtime to recharge and prevent burnout. 

Setting Realistic Goals 

Goal-setting is a powerful tool for motivation and achievement. Collaborate with your child to set realistic, achievable goals for their exams. Break down large goals into smaller, manageable tasks to prevent overwhelm and foster a sense of progress.

However, it’s crucial to maintain realistic expectations. Avoid placing undue pressure on your child to achieve perfection. Instead, focus on encouraging their best effort and celebrating their progress, no matter how small. 

Encouraging Independence 

Empowering your child to take ownership of their learning journey is key to fostering independence and self-regulation. Encourage them to develop effective study strategies that work best for their learning style. Whether it’s creating flashcards, practising past papers, or forming study groups, empower your child to take initiative and responsibility for their academic success.